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I'm excited to introduce you all to Jude. Her daughter J., who I know through my best friend N., encouraged her to write a post for this series. I'm so glad she reached out to me!
I'm excited to introduce you all to Jude. Her daughter J., who I know through my best friend N., encouraged her to write a post for this series. I'm so glad she reached out to me!
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I am a cradle Catholic and embrace the faith, but I have always
felt a little uncomfortable when I hear people say, “God cured me” or “God
saved me” in one situation or another.
While I believe in the healing power of God, that He is omnipotent and
can do all things, I’ve struggled with the notion that He would choose to heal
or save one person over another, one child over another. I find it difficult to
put “God” and “arbitrary” in the same thought.
Did one person not pray hard enough for him or herself, or for their
ailing child? Does God have some kind of
“prayer meter” that measures the quantity, intensity and sincerity of prayer?
If a person dies in spite of prayer, was he or she deemed unworthy of healing?
I think not.
Two years ago, a middle-school student in the district I
work in passed away from a cancer that he bravely fought against since
kindergarten. I never had Ben as a
student, but his grandmother is a colleague, and staff would get regular mass
e-mails about Ben’s condition and treatment. Talk about a faith-filled
family…his mom thanked God for new treatments, prayed constantly that they
would work and that Ben would tolerate the side-effects without too much pain
and nausea. She ended every e-mail with,
“KEEP PRAYING!!!” We all did.
The year Ben died, our 24-year-old daughter, Hilary, was
diagnosed with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. Any
parent can relate to our feelings, the realization of a parent’s worst
nightmare. We jumped in with both feet
getting the medical treatment started; CT scan, two difficult and dangerous
biopsies (the tumor was near her heart), six months of chemotherapy and five
weeks of radiation. And like Ben’s
mother, I prayed and asked everyone I know to pray for Hilary’s healing. In the back of my mind, however, I couldn’t
help but think, “Why Hilary and not Ben?”
One of the friends I asked to pray for Hilary is a woman
I’ve known since our kids were little.
We’ve shared many ups and downs of life over the years. Chris isn’t sophisticated, and she’s had a
hard life, but I’ve always admired her faith and how easily she can put things
in God’s hands. The next time I saw her
after I asked her to pray for Hilary, she told me that God spoke to her and
told her what words we should use when we prayed. She looked a little puzzled and asked, “What
does, era…era…eradicate mean?” When I
told her, she said that’s what she thought it must mean. God told her that we should pray that
“Hilary’s cancer is eradicated.” I had
no doubt that God had spoken to my friend…she wasn’t sure how to pronounce
“eradicate” or what exactly the word meant.
It has been over a year since Hilary completed her
treatments, and she is actively working and living her life in New York City. She just had a negative CT scan and was told
that she can stretch the scans to 8 months instead of 6. We are incredibly grateful. I wish I could say that now I get it, the
whole prayer/healing thing, but I don’t, and I know that it is a mystery that I
will never understand. All I can say is
that I take nothing for granted. Every day, I thank God for Hilary’s health and
continue to pray for strength and wisdom…and of course, that the cancer will be
eradicated forever.
Hmmm..poignant.
ReplyDeleteI always ask these same questions.
I actually asked the question this morning when I prayed about finding some important documents I left on the train yesterday. As I prayed, I kept thinking of how some of my prayers are yet been answered. However, I am reminded that many of my prayers have been answered.
It is hard to determine why God chooses to answer some prayers and take His time with others...I ask questions about it a lot. I remain rested in the truth that He is both a loving and wise God.
I also pray Hilary's is cured of cancer forever.
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