On Tuesday, I turned 28 years old. We had dinner with Scott's family last weekend, and this coming weekend, we're going out to celebrate -- just the two of us on Friday and with a whole group of friends on Saturday.
So on the actual day, I enjoyed some relaxation time and opened gifts from my family and Scott (
you can check out a few snapshots below).
But throughout the week, I've been thinking a lot. I've been reflecting on the past year, but mostly I've been contemplating the coming year.
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Birthday roses from my in-laws |
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Fun polka-dot tights for the family birthday dinner |
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Free birthday pumpkin spice latte! |
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I voted! |
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Yummy lunch of white cheddar mac & cheese with onions, peas, and salmon |
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Girly birthday outfit: pink cardigan, purple pants and a bit of sparkle |
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Gifts from my family! |
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Scott's gift! Classic and beautiful. |
It's probably the first time in my life when I'm unsure what the next year holds. Yes, I quit my job last December and wasn't sure how my business would grow in 2012, but I did know I was finishing grad school and nannying for the first half of the year. And I do know I'll continue to work hard and spend time with the people I love in the 12 months ahead, but there are more unknowns than ever before.
The good news: in the midst of the birthday celebrations and my time of reflection, I found peace. I received a "no" this week -- one of many that I have received and one of many to come -- but this time, I didn't see it as a "no." I realized it was simply a "not now" -- a sign that I was going to be okay, I was on the right path, and I shouldn't give up, worry, or feel discouraged. It was a moment of complete trust that God has a plan and He is taking care of me.
And as part of "not now," I also refocused on the "now" -- today, the present time, my life as it is right now. So much of the time, we're looking to the past or the future. In this coming year, as a 28-year-old, I hope to savor the present and treasure this year of life, whatever it brings.
I hope to remember that "no" doesn't always mean "no, end of story." In those quiet moments of prayer and questions and gratitude, I hope to find peace again and again... to understand that "no" often means "not now... be patient and focus on all the good in life at this very moment."
Mel, it takes a tremendous amount of courage to start something of your own. I have a huge amount of respect for your endeavor. In the beginning, there are always challenges. I look forward to the day that we can celebrate your many successes!
ReplyDelete"not now" - melissa, that's so right on, what a good lesson. i wish only for the best for you in your 28th year! xo
ReplyDeleteHappy belated birthday! Sorry about the no :( I hope you remember, you can't hear "yes" until you hear no.
ReplyDeletelove this reflective post - you're so right. sometimes we receive a "no" because we're not ready or better things are in store. hope you had a great birthday celebration! love the kate spade clutch!
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